Sometimes cousins are really distant. Sometimes, they are like siblings. This cousin has been both.
He grew up in Papua New Guinea, so I didn't really get to know him very well as we were growing up. So when he came back to the States four years ago and started living with my family, I had a hard time adjusting. I hardly knew this guy, and I'd never had a brother before. But God worked, and we became fast friends. I'll never forget the many hours we spent together laughing, talking, playing games, and doing stuff together. It was a really neat time for me of growing and challenge.
If it wasn't for this cousin, I wouldn't be here at MTC right now. It was his example that challenged me to apply to the MTC last year. And I am SO thankful that he did!!! It's been one of the most incredible experiences of my life thus far!
This cousin is a man after God's heart. He is diligent, hardworking, thoughtful, patient, considerate, and a great friend. He has a heart for people and wants to serve them.
I'm so excited that he's engaged and getting married. While it's sometimes hard to feel like I'm losing a brother, I'm so incredibly grateful to see what God is doing in his life and how He's bringing this marriage together. It's so cool to see!
We've had our ups and downs. Our struggles and quarrels. But that's all a part of being almost-siblings. It sometimes hurts. But it's also full of fun and joy.
Happy Birthday, Josiah (sorry, this is actually a day late)! I'm so glad I know you, and I hope that our friendship continues until we're old and grey, and our teeth are falling out. :) I love you!
Thanks so much, Ashlyn! I really appreciate you as a great friend, cousin, and sister! Thanks for investing in my life! Thanks for sticking with me through everything these past few years. You've been such a blessing :-. I am so grateful for you! Love you too!
ReplyDeleteLove, Josiah